thoughts and opinions on 10+ age gaps in friendships/relationships/flirtationships?…
Personally I don’t see anything wrong with it, as long as everything is on the up and up. I’ve got friends who are on both sides of the 10+ gap, and there’s nothing wrong with that. Relationship/flirtationships on the other hand has more issues, the main one being that everyone is of legal age and the second one is that everyone is consenting with it and it’s not a creepy one sided thing. I play flirt with a lot of my friends, but only those who are comfortable with it
Sir, I lost my virginity weeks ago. And it was fine but not mind-blowing. Idk, I guess I will like it more if he was rudder. But he is not my boyfriend, and I don't know how to tell him how I feel, if we decide to do it again.
Sex can grow on a person the more they do it and the more experience they get and working out your kinks then playing with them. It can also just not be something that’s amazing for a person, which is okay as well.
As for telling him how you feel, it’s best to be open about it if you do plan on doing it again in the future. If you like him and continue to have fun, it could become painful to hold those feelings back and devastating if you tell him later and he doesn’t have those feelings. If you don’t like him that way then it’s best to make sure that both sides know it’s about having fun, not about being involved with each other.
Sir I'm a little shy to ask this but do you have any suggestions for self aftercare specifically for experimenting with anal play? Cuz I'm trying it out because I think my guy is into it and I wanna get used to it but y'know… The aftermath is kinda ouch :/ /)////(\
Anal play is something that can take a while to get used to, and should be started small and slow. As for aftercare, anal play can leave you sore so a good start is to have a soft, comfy pillow around for you to use afterwards, another good idea is to have a nice warm bath, not only can you clean yourself up afterwards but it can help your muscles relax.
Though do take note that anal isn’t for everyone, so if you aren’t enjoying it then you shouldn’t force yourself because your partner might like it, there are plenty of other things I’m sure the both of you could enjoy together.
When I click the link, it sends me to the browser, not the app version. I’m very confused since it kept on telling me to log in.
This issue has been brought up to me before and I’m unsure why it does that. I suggest trying to use the app or using safari/Firefox/internet and seeing if one of those work for you
Do you still have your master list of all of your stories?
Yes I do! It’s on my blog somewhere, but I got to update it. I will look at doing that tomorrow!
Sir, this is the "beginning bonage" anon… thank you so so SO much for these references 🖤💜💛 I've read through/watched some of them nd am so excited to get to practicing so I can do them safely and then try them out with my guy. You're a saint, sir! Thank you so much!!
You’re very welcome, just make sure to stay safe, have a safe word and both enjoy each other!
I loved your reblog of your library for kinksters and I'd like to find more masterlists like it for sex (rather than kinks) that I can maybe use within my sex life with my boyfriend. We're each other's firsts so we're exploring ourselves as well as each other. Could you possibly point me in the direction of something like that?
Well if you click on the “sir’s info” hashtag at the bottom of that post you’ll be able to go through more sexual ( and other stuff ) that I have reblogged in the past, plus you should be able to find more lists like that by using the search function on tumblr.
It’s great to hear that you both are looking at trying new things, just remember to take it slow, read up, keep it safe and have lots of fun!
(2/2) I want things to work out because I really like him. But I don't know if he feels the same because he's gone back to reading and not replying to my messages and it makes me feel like I'm being annoying when I am the first to send a message (although I asked him if he found me annoying and he said no) it lingers in my head because I don't want feel like I'm being a pain in the ass.
I can’t say for everyone but when a person reads and doesn’t answer, once or twice I would call that an accident where they got busy and/or forgot ( I do that sometimes ) but if it happens all the time, that sounds like he isn’t interested in you the way you are I’m him, and he could be in it for the sex more than anything.
You should ask him what he believes your relationship is, and find out if your feelings won’t be returned or if there’s a chance, it’s better to find out sooner than later.
(1/2) Hi sir, heart related question here. I met this guy online late December early January of this year we met up a few times and had sex. I would text and not get an answer for days with the understanding that yes he works and he has late shifts so that was probably one of the reasons I wouldn't get a reply. February came along and I started dating another guy (this lasted almost 4 months but I broke it off). I am now back to talking to the guy I met earlier in the year.
Answer in part 2
Hey sir… I'm really nervous to ask this but do you have any references for bondage for beginners or something like that? My guy mentioned that it was a fantasy of his and I'd love to make it happen for him /)////(\
I’ve reblogged some older posts I had that do talk about bondage, so give them a look over/read/watch and remember above all, be safe and have fun!