So I need some advice. For the first time, I t…

So I need some advice. For the first time, I thought of someone when I masturbated. Normally I get off just fine without thinking about a real person, but this time I just couldn't help it, and it was one of the best orgasms that I've ever had, but now… I feel kinda dirty. It feels like I didn't give this guy (who's like 8 years older than me) a choice in becoming my sexual fantasy, like I committed some sort of mind rape… and I hate it. I feel like a bad person. What do I do? -Lady H

A fantasy is anything you want it to be, in your fantasy you didn’t force him, or make him do things he didn’t want, so I wouldn’t call it mind rape. In fact, i wouldn’t say you did anything wrong at all, we can’t help the way our minds or bodies react to images or scenarios, but as long as you aren’t going to try and force him in real life to reenact those things without consent, I would say don’t be so hard on yourself. If you aren’t hurting anyone or encouraging others to hurt anyone then you should enjoy whatever helps you get off

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